RAISING A STRONG DAUGHTER - WEEK 4 - CHAPTER 3

RAISING A STRONG DAUGHTER IN A TOXIC CULTURE: 11 STEPS TO KEEP HER HAPPY, HEALTHY, AND SAFE by Meg Meeker, M.D.

As I read this chapter, I kept thinking we all need a Kristine in our lives, don't we? Somebody that keeps moving forward even when the crap is hitting the fan. Somebody that looks for the good in every situation and in every person they meet. A Kristine. I'm not so naive to think that Kristine 's pillow may not be wet some at night when no one sees. But each day, she gets up, laces up her boots, and meets the day. Lord, help me be a Kristine!

What did you think about the statement that a Mom's love "is non-negotiable," but a Dad's love "must be earned? " I didn't grow up feeling that way. I always felt my Dad's love was as steady and plentiful as a river. No earning was necessary.

I love the hope that Dr. Meeker extends in this chapter. "It is never too late to restore the bond between a mother and daughter." If you were waiting for the confirmation to step out and take some action, there it is! It's time to build bridges.

The list at the end of the chapter was insightful. I don't know about you, but a mother who tries to act like her teenage or young adult daughter is such a turn-off. There's nothing sadder than a momma trying to hold on to the past instead of living in the present. Daughters need a mother that leads and mentors, not another peer blindly stumbling along grasping at straws in life.

I'd love to hear your thoughts, and go hug your daughter!